What would your most romantic foreplay session involve?
What types of foreplay would you like more of?
If you were designing a secret love den, adult play room or sex dungeon for the two of us, how would it look and what would you include in it? Try to describe it in as much detail as you can (style, color, toys, accessories, furniture, etc.).
In what way would you most like to add the “thrill of getting caught” to our sex play to make it even more exciting?
What would you include in a picnic basket for a romantic outing and where would we go?
What flavor or scent of massage oil do you find the most arousing? What kinds of stimulating lubricants, oils or creams would you like to try?
What do you fantasize about while masturbating with a dildo?
Do you feel I read your body language and get your signals right most of the time? Do you feel I know when you want sex to be sensual or more passionately intense?
What’s the most daring sexual thing you have or would like to do in a public location like a store, bar, restaurant or movie theatre?
In which situation would you most likely offer me a quickie when you’re feeling extra naughty? Just before we leave for work or shortly before we’re expecting visitors.
What color and style of lingerie do you prefer and why? Do you prefer to remove the lingerie before having sex or to
Have you ever been able to have an orgasm by stimulation of any erogenous zone other than your genitals? Can you show or tell me how to give you this type of orgasm or would you like to try to find a way to make it happen together?
If you were a porn director “interviewing” me for a new movie, what kinds of things would you want demonstrated on the casting couch?
Who do you think is the most sexually arousing movie star and in what role?
If we were to make our own erotic video for just the two of us, what would be the setting, theme or plot of the movie and what kinds of sex play would we film?
If you had started a sexual scrapbook or memory box when you were a teenager, what kinds of things would you have put in it?
What is your favorite type of erotic reading material?
What forms of affection and non-sexual intimacy do you want more of in our relationship?
How do you feel about kissing after receiving oral sex?
What household items can you imagine using to pleasure each other? What would we do with them?
During foreplay, which of your erogenous zones or parts of your body would you like me to touch and caress more?
What is the "strangest" fantasy you enjoy and will admit to, but would never or could not actually do in real life?
Everyone has secret sexual desires that they believe are too sensitive, shocking or weird to reveal even to their partner. What can I do to help make you feel more comfortable sharing our secret desires so we can both satisfy them together?